A few things I learned recently:
1. I practice “unattachment parenting.”
Boo had been home sick and was finally ready to go back to school yesterday. I had planned to drive to L.A. for the day to pick up a fabric order and run a few errands. Mr. LBB was around in case she got too tired on her first day back and needed to pick her up.
I was about 45 minutes into my drive when I got a phone call:
Mr. LBB: Where are you?
Me: I’m about 45 minutes out, why?
Mr. LBB: I have to drive to Arizona.
Me: When?
Mr. LBB: Now. It’s an emergency and I need to drive some supplies to the guys asap.
Me: Now?! So do I need to turn around?
Mr. LBB: No, I’ll figure it out. Do you think Lisa can watch Boo?
Me: No, she’s out sick.
Mr. LBB: Great.
Me: Just keep calling everyone we know until someone says yes…..
No one on our emergency list was in town or available. Can a 5-year-old be a latch key kid? Brett ended up driving his assistant Bonnie to the school to introduce her to the teachers and show her where to pick Boo up and then confirmed that his dad would pick her up from Bonnie when he was able to leave the hospital. It kind of reminded me of last summer when I had to go in for my first D&C and Mr. LBB was in Washington for 4 weeks: I had Lisa drive me to the hospital, Gicela took Boo, my sister-in-law Carolyn picked me up after surgery was over, then Gicela dropped Boo back off, Carolyn put her to bed, and stayed until I fell asleep. For as OCD as I am, my life sure does have the chaos factor sometimes.
The funny part is that Boo loves chaos. If someone new gets to pick her up from school it’s “the best thing that’s ever happened to her.”
Is consistency important to kids? Maybe, but mine seems to thrive off of inconsistency…..